we has parent have lost the right to discipline

do you think we has parent have lost the right to show our children any discipline or any form of boundaries in the home children to day think it is ok to disrespect there mother and father why cause the system say its ok but when we say we are going to disclpline our own children they then want to come in to your home and tell you you cant well thats not right they dont pay the bills when your child gose out and bring the promblem to your door it not the government door they are knocking its your