Getting Over Yourself Self Help is an inside job - is the second in a new series of semi-tough love books aimed at people who are having trouble getting out of the rut they find themselves in. If it were a nice rut they would not be looking at this book or even be in the self help section. At this point it is still something of a draft, but if you are impatient and impulsive you can buy it now and send me suggestions as to what it should have said.